For the past 20 years, my passion in life has been in human behavior. I find it fascinating to understand the underlying reasons why people behave the way they do. My heart has huge empathy for those that have suffered emotional trauma by the hands of others in their journey of life. I know we were all born with a clear window that we peered through and saw only innocence. People threw stuff at our window, which was sometimes open and that stuff got inside burying the innocence. And because of that stuff we are who we are today.
I’ve had my share of unhealthy relationships in the past. That is why I decided to dive in and figure out whether it was me or them. I couldn’t see going through my whole life bouncing from one dismal relationship to another. Something needed to change and I had to find out what. What was it about me that kept picking people who were boiling over with baggage?
From all the valuable lessons I have learned and experienced, I can confidently say that I choose to only engage in healthy relationships whether it be a partner or friends. I now live with inner peace every day.
My friends who know me well call me Dr. Phil’is (a pun referring to Dr. Phil). Although they tease me, I am the first person they reach out to for direction when things go astray. My main goal is to offer direction to as many people as I can possibly touch that are wondering why the sun doesn’t shine on them when it comes to relationships.
When I am not writing, I love to go swimming, bicycle riding and hiking with my two labs. I am often entertained by the thoughts of my teenage son and his friends. Interesting to hear their take on life. When conversation starts amongst his friends and I pipe in with a few words, he looks at them and says “see where I get it from.” His friends now come to him for advice. He has even had a few parents asking him for advice in regards to their children. His responses are very emotionally intelligent. Fortunately the apple doesn’t fall far from the tree.
I do make an effort to reply to every email sent to me directly, and I’m always happy to hear from readers. I much prefer email sent directly to kady[at]onlinedatingbook.org
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May you have the strength and courage to always be who you want to be.
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